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I volunteer my time to help the OP and what I get out of it is my own business.
On one hand you are right: it is your time you spend and you are entitled to spend it any way you see fit. On the other hand please be aware that this board is a collaborative effort and we (that is: the moderation team) not only provide answers to questions but also to enforce certain politics in the process. Don's continuous asking about what the parameters of requested solutions exactly should be have - many times over and over - brought to light not only misconsceptions underlying in the questions but also revealed problems to be homework and coursework which are - for a reason - prohibited in the main forum.
This might not have been the case here but neither did you know nor did you undergo any effort to find out. I value your effort and your work here but i kindly ask you not to make the work for my colleagues any harder than it already is. We are volunteers like you.
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Placing some "impersonal" pressure on them to provide as we demand, most likely, will produce an effect of discrepancy.
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However, I found, in these cases, that providing an approximation of what I think they want, helps the process of identifying the real requirement and proper help, either by me or some else.
Let us talk about plastering: there are two ways to do it. The first one is to figure out the exact parameters of the wall, the plaster to be used, how the way the final wall is supposed to look like, etc. and then carefully apply the plaster in the right way. The second way is to throw plaster against the wall, wait until (that is the usual result) two thirds of it have fallen offf again, collect the remnants at the base, mix it with some water again, throw it again against the wall, rinse and repeat until finally a point is reached where the result borders on being satisfying.
One could argue that the second method produces at least
some results immediately whereas the first method results in nothing being "really done" in the same time. One could argue that many people wanting to have a house built have no clear conception about what it should look like so the best the mason can do is to do build
something and maybe tear it down again if it happens not to be what the principal wanted.
Still, as any mason can tell you, there is a sacred tradition among the craftsmen to only use the first method nevertheless. You might want to think about that.
bakunin