here's the netstat output. the default routers (ciscos) are in bold.
in my original post i said the gateway for the outside was 68.208.213.123
it should have been 68.208.213.1

Routing tables

Internet:
Destination Gateway Flags Refs Use Netif Expire
default 68.208.213.1 UGSc 36 27262 de0
10.10/16 link#2 UC 4 0 de1
10.10.10.1 00:e0:b0:63:da:e0 UHLW 0 2 de1 1196
10.10.10.18 00:04:75:83:e7:8c UHLW 0 1 de1 1046
10.10.10.19 00:c0:f0:32:02:40 UHLW 0 10 de1 831
10.10.10.45 00:c0:f0:31:55:b0 UHLW 0 54194 lo0
127.0.0.1 127.0.0.1 UH 0 2546 lo0
68.208.0/16 link#1 UC 13 0 de0
68.208.213.1 00:00:0c:75:dc:91 UHLW 37 0 de0 907
68.208.213.19 00:04:27:46:43:ea UHLW 0 2074 de0 68
68.208.213.152 00:04:27:46:43:ea UHLW 0 332 de0
68.208.213.221 00:04:27:46:43:ea UHLW 2 222693 de0 729
68.208.214.8 00:00:0c:75:dc:91 UHLW 4 667918 de0 713
68.208.214.16 00:00:0c:75:dc:91 UHLW 0 7 de0 625
68.208.214.51 00:00:0c:75:dc:91 UHLW 0 7 de0 792
68.208.214.54 00:00:0c:75:dc:91 UHLW 0 7 de0 61
68.208.214.57 00:00:0c:75:dc:91 UHLW 0 7 de0 653
68.208.214.60 00:00:0c:75:dc:91 UHLW 0 140 de0 912
68.208.214.116 00:00:0c:75:dc:91 UHLW 0 411 de0 387
68.208.214.182 00:00:0c:75:dc:91 UHLW 0 146 de0
68.208.214.254 00:00:0c:75:dc:91 UHLW 0 508 de0 1090